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We could be trees

They are rooted in the earth, but they look at the sky. They keep a strong, nurturing connection with their surroundings, yet they take different shapes as they grow. Yes, we could be trees; in fact, maybe we should be like them.

Nature is wise and everything is purposeful. Think that nature has “invented” all kind of stuff, thousands of years before humans discover them. A favourite example is the pump: it exists in nature since almost day one, in everyone having a heart, yet people decoded how a pump works around 2000BC. This is one of many evidences that nature is probably wiser than individuals. Of course, we evolve, we procreate, we invent things and we reinvent ourselves; we have new understanding of life and existence and we are more capable now to tackle the meanings that natural systems have to reveal. We also internalize better the principles of ancient civilizations, where nature, elements and animals were sacred- as manifestations of deeper meanings. We belong with nature. All the answers have always been there, but we have been to busy or too much in a hurry to find them. While the trees are there in the most confident and determined way.

Symbolically speaking, the trees show us the way to be: grounded but ambitious. Stable but growing. In touch with whatever gives us life. Yet, the less time we spend in nature, the more distant we become from ourselves and others. Meditation has always been the path to awareness, not because it takes us away but because we learn how to be present. Isn’t this strange in a way? Everything we are seeking is right here, yet we have to walk a long way to get in touch with it.

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Know your emotions

Let’s try a quick check-in on yourself: how are you feeling right now? Is there any thought that bothers you? Or perhaps, you have some physical pain, like your body tries to tell you something? Are you angry or sad? Are you anxious or excited? You might be surprised, but most of the people are unable to name and recognize their emotions. This actually comes as the consequence of not being present and authentically in touch with ourselves.

“Isn’t feeling my emotions enough?”, one might ask. The thing is that sometimes our reactions do not respond to the actual emotion we experience, triggering misunderstandings and misconception. Imagine that you apply for a job that you really like and you eagerly wait for a positive response. But, things go south and you don’t get the job. You might start crying, or naming the HR team names and Comforting yourself by making payback plans.  But, is really anger what you feel in this case? Or could it be disappointment, frustration, bafflement?

To exercise self-soothing, We must first know what are we suffering from. It might seem painful, at first, to face our naked truth but this is always the first step towards healing. Therefore, take some time to reflect upon your emotions. Try to label them and allow yourself to experience the full spectrum of emotions. Then, Be kind to yourself, be supportive and stay away from self-criticism. Give yourself the time and space to feel more, and to be more.

 

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Keeping a journal

Did you keep a journal as child, writing these “dear diary” confessions? Did you ever wonder what makes us so prone to journaling when we were younger and why this urge is suppressed now? As many disciplinaries conclude, keeping a journal is good for the mind and the wellbeing for many different reasons.

Writing down our thoughts, dreams, fears and hypotheses, allows us to put them in order. Usually, mingled, random thinking cause stress as we constantly feel like we have unfinished business. When we keep a journal and we get used to put our thoughts in writing, we help our minds calm and relax. In fact, mindfulness and stress relief are closely related to journaling, as Dr. James Pennebaker’s research has proved. According to him, we even get better immune functions when we express ourselves by writing as we tame the stress and we face old traumas.

When our minds are racing we tend to become irrational, as we base our thinking in far fetched hypotheses that we manage to rationalize. However, these scenarios lose their power when written down as they fail the test of rational thinking. From this aspect, keeping a journal allow us to express our fears and at the same time to understand that they are not real or even possible. Hence, we get to know ourselves better, while self- soothing and calming our brains.

Journals also boost memory and productivity. There is a saying that “smarts write down, idiots remember” that highlights the use to make actual notes rather than mental notes. The mere act of writing imprints our thoughts and ideas in our minds, making the memory last longer. Also, we let go of the burden of remembering (or forgetting) and we help ourselves into a more careless living. Those who keep a dreams journal already know the process of moving ideas from the unconscious to conscious level by writing them- isn’t it a great way to know yourself better and use your inner creativity in your every day life?

Keeping a journal, on the other hand, doesn’t mean you have to be a writer or have exceptional writing skills. It is a private task, nobody will ever judge you for your thoughts and the way you express them. Just find a way that comes handy to you and that it actually feels private and start writing. There are apps, like Journey, you can use, digital notepads, pen and paper, locked journals, napkins or whatever you want. So, don’t waste your time on the practicalities, just find your way and start writing!

 

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10 Mindfulness Researchers You Should Know

Since the early 2000s, research on mindfulness has been expanding rapidly. Here’s a look at 10 leaders in the field, what their research has shown us, and the future directions their studies are taking.

1) JUDSON BREWER, MD, PHD

Psychiatrist and Chief, Division of Mindfulness; associate professor, Departments of Medicine and Psychiatry; research director, Center for Mindfulness, UMASS Medical School

Known For:
Discovering how mindfulness can undercut addiction; using neuroimaging techniques to reveal how mindfulness affects the brain; developing mindfulness tools to help people quit smoking and handle food cravings.

Future Directions:
Examining the effects of mindfulness programs delivered via digital means. “This is the next generation of mindfulness delivery,” he says. “We want to carefully study how it works.” His team has created an app, “Unwinding Anxiety,” which he plans to study in future clinical trials.

2) DAVID CRESWELL, PHD

Associate professor of psychology, Carnegie Mellon University

Known For:
Examining what makes people resilient under stress and cofounding health neuroscience, which combines health psychology and neuroscience.

Future Directions:
He has begun a randomized controlled trial looking at how Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction may improve social relationships and healthy aging in older adults. In other trials, his team is examining whether adding acceptance and equanimity skills to mindfulness training can reduce stress and improve health.

3) LARISSA DUNCAN, PHD

Elizabeth C. Davies Chair in Child & Family Well-Being and associate professor of human development and family studies at the School of Human Ecology and the Center for Healthy Minds, University of Wisconsin–Madison

Known For:
Developing ways to promote and assess mindful parenting; bringing mindfulness and compassion training to pregnant women, children, adolescents, and families.

Future Directions:
She’s planning a study to test how Mindfulness-Based Childbirth and Parenting affects mothers’ mental health, stress physiology, and well-being, and infants’ behavioral, biological, and neurological development. She’s also partnering with mindfulness experts of color, seeking ways to make mindfulness more widely accessible and culturally relevant.

4) ELISSA EPEL, PHD

Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of California, San Francisco School of Medicine

Known For:
Groundbreaking work linking severe stress with shortened telomeres, cellular structures that play a key role in aging and disease. Her mindfulness research has focused on examining the benefits of meditation for people experiencing chronic stress and without previous meditation experience.

Future Directions:
Taking a closer look at how meditation affects people who’ve suffered adversity in childhood. “They tend to have certain patterns of thought that are ideal targets for meditation training,” Epel says.

5) PATRICIA JENNINGS, PHD

Associate professor of education, Curry School of Education, University of Virginia

Known For:
Innovative research on mindfulness in education. She recently published a randomized controlled trial showing that a mindfulness-based professional development program for teachers, CARE for Teachers, reduces teacher stress and improves classroom interactions.

Future Directions:
She’s conducting a randomized controlled trial of the Compassionate Schools Project. It aims to promote focus, resilience, empathy, and well-being by teaching mindfulness, contemplative movement, and social/emotional skills to students at 50 Louisville elementary schools.

6) AMISHI JHA, PHD

Neuroscientist, associate professor of psychology, founder and head of the Jha Lab, University of Miami

Known For:
Pioneering work, much of it funded by the Department of Defense—carried out with military, students, and athletes, showing mindfulness can protect attention and working memory and examining how to scale up mindfulness training for larger populations and make its effects long lasting.

Future Directions:
Adding compassion training to mindfulness techniques to study how the blend affects prosocial behavior and peer- to-peer support. “We’re looking for best training delivery practices; e.g., how to achieve and sustain maximum benefits with lowest time demands. Accessible training is key for broad adoption by high-performance and high-demand groups,” Jha says.

7) SARA LAZAR, PHD

Associate researcher in psychiatry, Massachusetts General Hospital; assistant professor in psychology, Harvard Medical School

Known For:
Studying the neuroscience of yoga and meditation. Her research has indicated that meditation may produce structural changes in the brain and slow aging-related brain atrophy.

Future Directions:
She’s beginning a study among adults with no previous meditation experience, testing whether mindfulness training can enhance and preserve memory.

8) MICHAEL MRAZEK, PHD

Director of research, Center for Mindfulness and Human Potential, Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences, University of California, Santa Barbara

Known For:
Finding ways to increase the effectiveness of mindfulness training, particularly in K-12 school settings.

Future Directions:
Over the next three years, he will be conducting a series of US Department of Education-funded studies to discover the best ways to teach mindfulness to high school students.

9) CLIFFORD SARON, PHD

Researcher, neuroscientist, Center for Mind and Brain; director of the Saron Lab, University of California, Davis

Known For:
Directing the Shamatha Project, a multiyear investigation of long-term intensive meditation (in the form of a three-month retreat). Findings so far are that the practice sharpens and sustains attention, enhances well-being and empathy, and improves physiological markers of health.

Future Directions:
Examining psychological well-being among Shamatha Project participants seven years after the initial retreat. And among participants in one-month meditation retreats, Saron is examining biomarkers of cellular aging, stress, and inflammation.

10) ZINDEL SEGAL, PHD

Professor of brain and therapeutics, University of Toronto–Scarborough

Known For:
Being a founder of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), which integrates meditation into psychotherapy. A leading researcher on mindfulness and mood disorders, he has shown that MBCT can prevent relapses in people with depression.

Future Directions:
Segal is conducting a study at a large HMO examining whether adding a digital form of MBCT to standard depression care can reduce symptoms. Another study in progress examines neural changes, over a two-year period, in patients who have used MBCT and recovered from depression.

 

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Understanding Conditioning

What is the opposite of conditioning? In one sense, it could be authenticity. Because conditioning describes all the habits, coping mechanisms and reactions that we have adopted at a very early life stage and we are not even aware that they are not really ours. It is not about blaming our parents or caregivers as very gently Annie Gospodin posits. It is just a process of separating what we really are from what we have learnt to be and letting go of beliefs that don’t serve us anymore.

Parents are humans, too, and probably they have been conditioned from their families and so on. As times change new beliefs and manners rise but we don’t always successfully adapt. Let’s take a silly example: it is very common amongst eldest people to prefer cash over plastic money. During their upbringing their children were probably instructed not to trust credit cards and digital transactions etc. These kids are “conditioned” to use cash as adults unless they realize the source of this faulty perception and they decide not to follow it any further. The problem is when cases are not so obvious; as we internalize parental and societal beliefs we end up living a life designed to make others happy.

Some common conditioning examples are being very harsh and critical on ourselves because our parents used to acknowledge we are worthy only when we achieved something extraordinary. Or we don’t express our feelings because we didn’t use to do so in our families. Gossiping, comparing ourselves to others, being fearful and anxious all the time, they all are patterns we have copied from our surroundings, without really giving a thought if they serve us in anything. So, as we embark to this journey to understand and discover our authentic self, identifying conditioning is a crucial step. Mindfulness is a great path, as it allows our mind to mute any noise and focus on what really matters. So, next time you will meditate, concentrate on your breath and then let your mind picture you in a context where nobody is judging or criticizing. At a place where you can be you, you can express your true thoughts and emotions, unfiltered. It is harder that it sounds, but, the moment you get to visualize it, you will already know which parts of your behaviour don’t really resonate with the real you. This is your first stop during the self-discovery journey.

 

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